Store My Library
About Contact
Private 1:1 Work

You've built a beautiful life and still can't fully be yourself inside of it.

For the man who is ready to come back to life.

Apply for 1:1 Work
The Territory

You know who you are when the world is watching. You've earned a life that looks right from every angle, and most of the time it genuinely is. But there is a version of you that only comes out in those charged moments when desire or vulnerability or both walk through the door uninvited. That version of you shrinks where you usually expand. He performs where you usually lead authentically. He abandons his own body, dissociating right when things start to get too intense.

Maybe you've noticed a pattern of losing your center around men you're attracted to, getting insecure, putting on a facade that doesn't serve you at all. Maybe you keep saying yes when your body is saying no, because somewhere along the way you learned that pleasing others mattered more than being true to yourself. Maybe there are aspects of your wild queer magic you keep bottled up, and yet you sense a new you who is ready to take up space, to be in intimate connection with yourself, your body, your pleasure. You feel done rejecting the most brilliant pieces of your soul.

An extraordinary outer life, and an intimate world that stays hungry and half-lived.

And underneath it all, you are probably exhausted by carrying both.

Or maybe you find yourself at a big life threshold. A divorce. A disenchantment with your career. A desire to make big changes, and a need for someone who can help you dream wildly and set your soul on fire, so you can become the new version of yourself you know is waiting.

Our work together lives in this territory. Through parts work, shamanic practice, somatic and erotic embodiment, I guide you into what you've been avoiding, and I stay with you while you discover who you actually are once the masks come off, the body softens, and your deepest desire is finally allowed to tell the truth.

Hey, I'm

Alessandro.

I guide men back into their bodies, their desire, and the parts of themselves they were taught to hide. The work is shamanic, somatic, and erotic. This page is about the most intimate container I hold.

My Story
This is for you if

You're Ready.

01

You want to feel more erotically alive.

So embodied, so connected, that numbness becomes impossible. Turned on by your own life again.

02

You have everything, and you're bored inside of it.

The beautiful life is real. So is the flatness you feel moving through it. You're ready to find out what's underneath.

03

You're ready to explore your edges and face all of your parts.

Connecting to your deepest desires, the territory you've circled for years without entering. The shame you've carried like a second skin, the exiles you sent away to survive: all of them, met and welcomed back, without apologizing for any of it.

04

You are experiencing a major life transition.

A divorce, a disenchantment with your career, a threshold you can feel but cannot yet name. You need someone who can help you dream wildly and become the new version of yourself you know is waiting.

05

You're done putting on one more goddamn mask.

You want to love all of yourself, barefaced, with your heart fully activated instead of carefully managed.

Total liberation.

Apply for 1:1 Work

“My one-on-one ritual and journey were a huge turning point. Being supported so closely, without being smothered, let me find my own resources and finally meet what had been protecting me from my pain. It was a reset in my relationship with myself.”

Nigel Spencer
Inside the

Container.

A bespoke experience designed around your life, your edges, your becoming.

I.

Private Sessions

Live sixty-minute sessions weaving shamanic practices, Internal Family Systems parts work, somatic and erotic embodiment. We follow what your body is ready for, not a pre-written curriculum. Each session is different because you are different each time you arrive.

II.

Integration Between Sessions

Text and voice note access for when something comes up at two in the afternoon on a Tuesday and you need a steady presence, not a voicemail. The work doesn't pause between sessions, and neither does the support.

III.

Custom Practices

Mirror work, breathwork, ritual, somatic and erotic practices designed specifically for your body and what it's holding. I will teach you living tools that evolve as you do.

IV.

Private In-Person Retreat

For those who want the full immersion: a private retreat with ceremony, ritual bodywork, and concentrated depth. Reserved exclusively for men inside the container.

The Private Retreat
The Private

Retreat.

The deepest, most life-changing work I offer, and I only offer it to the men already inside this container.

Days of ceremony, ritual bodywork, and concentrated depth, designed entirely around one man: you. No group to perform for. No schedule except the one your body sets. Together we explore your erotic aliveness, your consent, your boundaries, and your desire, so that you leave with a felt experience of who you are when full permission to be yourself meets spiritual integrity.

This is where the work reaches the places a screen cannot touch, where the nervous system finally believes it is safe enough to open all the way. The sessions prepare the ground; the retreat is where everything becomes flesh. Men arrive as one version of themselves and leave as another, and the life they return to does not stay the same.

Reserved for men inside the container  ·  By invitation  ·  A separate investment
Apply for 1:1 Work
My Story

Alessandro Rōz

Alessandro Rōz is a transformational practitioner and facilitator specializing in erotic embodiment and emotional healing for queer men. His practice weaves together somatic work, Internal Family Systems parts work, contemporary shamanic practice, and the erotic as a living path to aliveness, all held within a framework he calls Death, Dream, and Eros.

His training runs across lineages and continents. He apprenticed for years in the Peruvian Amazon with Shipibo, Mestizo, and Ashaninka teachers, and his facilitation is shaped as much by that ground as by the somatic and parts-based modalities he works with today. Much of his work centers on mirror practice, guiding men back into their own reflection and toward the parts of themselves they learned to hide in order to survive.

Alessandro served three years as Community Director at Sacred Sons, guiding thousands of men through retreats and trainings. He is a co-founder of Brotherhood of Lovers, an organization leading queer-centered men's work internationally alongside Langston Kahn.

He believes desire can be a compass rather than a source of shame, and he is devoted to building spaces where queer men can be seen fully in their eros and their shadow and come home to their own aliveness.

From the work

“He helped me integrate what years of therapy couldn't touch. I didn't just understand my patterns. I finally felt safe enough to let them go.”

Brad  ·  7-Figure Interior Design Firm Owner
The

Commitment.

Three months together, with live private sessions, voice and text support between them, and custom practices designed for your body.

Every container is curated and custom designed around your needs and your desires. There is no template. We discuss investment inside the application conversation, once we both know this is right for you.

The Private Retreat is offered separately, by invitation, exclusively to men inside the container.

By application only

Apply for 1:1 Work
Come in closer

Apply.

This is my most intimate container and it's by application only. Take your time with these questions. There are no right answers, only honest ones.