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AN 8-WEEK EROTIC BROTHERHOOD INITIATION
FOR QUEER MEN READY TO LIBERATE THEIR MOST AUTHENTIC EXPRESSION

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

AN 8-WEEK EROTIC BROTHERHOOD FOR QUEER MEN
READY TO LIBERATE THEIR MOST AUTHENTIC EXPRESSION

WE START ON SUNDAY MARCH 29th

INTIMATE EXPERIENCE - LIMITED SPACES AVAILABLE

OPTIONAL IN-PERSON GATHERING MAY 28-31

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I'M READY TO BLOOM

You sense there's more

life force available to you. 

MORE OPENNESS. MORE ALIVENESS.

MORE FREEDOM IN YOUR OWN SKIN.

You've been showing up powerfully in your life, maybe done therapy, attended workshops, sat with plant medicine. You've learned to understand your patterns and to name your wounds.

And still...

STILL THERE'S A GAP between who you know you are and who you allow yourself to live as.

STILL YOU DIM YOUR BRIGHT LIGHT when you enter spaces where you should be taking up space.

STILL YOU PUT ON MASKS when dating, when meeting other queer men, when posting on social media, when all you really want is to feel so comfortable in your skin, so connected to your authentic essence, that all you do is radiate from a grounded place of self-trust.

 You've been doing the inner work.

Now you want support moving it into authentic expression. 

What you need is a container where you can finally BLOOM: where you're witnessed in your full beauty, your full desire, your full erotic aliveness. Where the parts you've been protecting can finally come forward.

So you can finally live fully open.

 

I'M READY TO BLOOM
Awaken your erotic aliveness. Remember your innocence. And let yourself bloom. 

Awaken your erotic aliveness. Remember your innocence. And let yourself bloom. 

BLOOM is where the inner work meets the light.

 

I'm curating an EROTIC BROTHERHOOD for those who know that the next step for their expansion is being seen without armor. 

We'll meet for 8 weeks. Fully nude. Witnessed by brothers who see you whole. 

 

Through council, parts work, ritual nudity, erotic embodiment practices, group coaching and the ancient technology of simply being witnessed by your brothers, you'll learn to open to your most authentic expression.

So you can bloom in your erotic aliveness and create a life of passion, purpose and service.

 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

BLOOM is where the inner work meets the light.

 

I'm curating an EROTIC BROTHERHOOD for those who know that the next step for their expansion is being seen without armor. 

We'll meet for 8 weeks, fully nude. Witnessed by brothers who see you whole. 

 

Through council, parts work, erotic embodiment practices, group coaching and the ancient technology of simply being witnessed by your brothers, you'll learn to open to your most authentic expression.

So you can bloom in your erotic aliveness and create a life of passion, purpose and service.

 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

When you liberate your most authentic expression:

 

YOU STOP BETRAYING YOURSELF TO BELONG. The constant editing, the dimming, the shapeshifting into whoever the room needs you to be ends, because the cost of hiding has finally become higher than the cost of being seen.

YOU LET THE OLD VERSIONS OF YOU COMPOST. The performer, the good boy, the one who made himself small so others could feel big. You grieve them and you release them and you discover that what remains is you true self. More alive, more authentic, more of you. 

YOU MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD KNOWING WHAT YOU STAND FOR. Your yes means yes. Your no doesn't need a paragraph of justification.

YOU DISCOVER THAT YOUR EROS IS HOLY and now you carry your desire like a sacred fire that lights your way. 

YOUR BODY BECOMES A SANCTUARY AND NOT A BATTLEFIELD You stop the war. You learn that boundaries are not walls but doorways. That you can be completely protected and completely open at the same time. 

YOU START DOING THE HARD THINGS. The ones that require your full presence and perhaps some sacrifice, you know, the things you've been putting off for years. You stop waiting to be ready and start trusting that readiness comes from starting.

YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL. You start walking the Beauty Way as a practice and life philosophy. Beauty as devotion and prayer, as the energy you keep choosing until it becomes the frequency you emit and bring into the world. 

 

And then something unexpected happens: you start creating again! 

The ideas that felt too precious to share, the projects you've been "almost ready" to start for years, the art, the writing, the offerings, the vision that required you to stop hiding before it could come through starts moving forward.

BECAUSE YOUR CREATIVE BLOCKS WERE NEVER ABOUT CREATIVITY. THEY WERE ABOUT THE RISK OF BEING SEEN.

And when you stop hiding yourself, your gifts stop hiding too.

When you liberate your most authentic expression:

 

YOU STOP BETRAYING YOURSELF TO BELONG. The constant editing, the dimming, the shapeshifting into whoever the room needs you to be ends, because the cost of hiding has finally become higher than the cost of being seen.

YOU LET THE OLD VERSIONS OF YOU COMPOST. The performer, the good boy, the one who made himself small so others could feel big. You grieve them and you release them and you discover that what remains is your true self. More alive, more authentic, more YOU. 

YOU MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD KNOWING WHAT YOU STAND FOR. Your yes means yes. Your no doesn't need a paragraph of justification.

YOU DISCOVER THAT YOUR EROS IS HOLY and now you carry your desire like a sacred fire that lights your way. 

YOUR BODY BECOMES A SANCTUARY AND NOT A BATTLEFIELD You stop the internal war and learn that boundaries are not walls but doorways. That you can be completely protected and completely open at the same time. 

YOU START DOING THE HARD THINGS. The ones that require your full presence and perhaps some sacrifice, you know, the things you've been putting off for years. You stop waiting to be ready and start trusting that readiness comes from starting.

YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL. You start walking the Beauty Way as a practice and life philosophy. Beauty as devotion and prayer, as the energy you keep choosing until it becomes the frequency you emit and bring into the world. 

 

And then something unexpected happens: you start creating again! 

 

The ideas that felt too precious to share, the projects you've been "almost ready" to start for years, the art, the writing, the offerings, the vision that required you to stop hiding before it could come through starts moving forward.

BECAUSE YOUR CREATIVE BLOCKS WERE NEVER ABOUT CREATIVITY. THEY WERE ABOUT THE RISK OF BEING SEEN.

 

And when you stop hiding yourself, your gifts stop hiding too.

Why we meet nude

Queer men learned early on that our bodies could betray us. That the wrong gesture, the wrong glance, an erection at the wrong time could cost us everything.

SO WE ARMORED.

We learned to shape-shift, to code-switch, to perform versions of ourselves that were safer to show. The body became something to manage, to monitor, to conceal.

That adaptation kept us alive. But it's not who we are.

When we practice ritual nudity we experience:

 

PRESENCE. It's hard to dissociate when you're this exposed. You land in your body because there's nowhere else to go.

VULNERABILITY. The armor drops. The masks become impossible. You meet yourself and your brothers without the usual defenses.

SOVEREIGNTY. Something shifts when you stop hiding. You reclaim the body that shame told you was wrong.

BROTHERHOOD. Men who have seen each other fully develop a bond that goes deeper than words.

You survived by hiding. 

You bloom by being seen.

 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

 Our journey together:

Composting what kept us hidden → Reclaiming the body as home → Living as full creative expression

Week 1: The Naked Arrival

WHAT HAVE I BEEN HIDING? 

The first disrobing. We arrive and ritually we make ourselves fully nude and completely visible. We let ourselves be seen by our brothers, so we can begin the journey of letting out what we've kept in shadow our whole life.

Week 2: The Closet & The Crossing

WHAT DID I LOSE IN HIDING AND WHAT DID I RECLAIM BY COMING OUT?

While others were having first kisses and fumbling discoveries, many of us were hiding. We grieve what was stolen: the crushes, the exploration, the celebration of who we were becoming. And we honor COMING OUT AS OUR FIRST RITE OF PASSAGE: the threshold we crossed, what it cost us, and the power we claimed by choosing to live as ourselves.

Week 3: Owning Your Voice

WHAT IS MY YES? WHAT IS MY NO? WHAT DO I STAND FOR?

We learned to shrink our truth to survive. This week we practice owning our perspective without apology. We claim our yes. We claim our no. We learn to speak with conviction about what's truly important to us, so that our word can align with our innermost truth.

Week 4: The Androgynous Body

WHERE DO I LIVE IN THIS BODY AND WHAT HAVE I EXILED?

We map the body: its pleasure, its armor, its ancestry. We explore how masculine and feminine energies live in us as currents we can feel and move with. We call on our queer ancestors who walked before us and let their medicine land in our bones.

Week 5: The Holy Phallus

CAN I LOVE MY COCK WITHOUT SHAME?

A session about the phallus and the male principle - giving, penetrating, projecting, taking up space. We explore our relationship with our cocks, the shame we've inherited, and what it means to hold ourselves with reverence. We learn to honor this gate as a source of creative power.

Week 6: The Sacred Rosebud

WHAT WOULD IT MEAN TO TRULY LET MYSELF RECEIVE?

A session about the anus, anal pleasure and the female principle: receiving, opening, surrendering, letting in. We explore the shame around bottoming and receptivity, the places we clench and armor, and what it means to soften. We learn that receiving is a practice of trust that unlocks deeper intimacy and pleasure.

Week 7: Desire as Compass 

WHAT DO I ACTUALLY WANT AND AM I ALLOWED TO WANT IT?

We turn toward our desires - including the ones we've judged. Kinks, fantasies, longings we've never spoken. This week is about letting desire be a compass rather than a problem to solve. We practice naming what we want without apology and letting our turn-ons guide us toward aliveness and purpose.

Week 8: Blooming Eros

WHO AM I BECOMING AND WHAT AM I HERE TO CREATE?

The final ceremony. We step into the light to name our gifts. What are we here to create? What beauty wants to move through us? We close with a group self-pleasure ritual and witness each other in full bloom. The container closes, but the opening continues.

BLOOM invites brothers who:

✦ Want support moving their inner work into outer expression

✦ Know their queerness is spiritual assignment, not accident

✦ Are tired of hiding behind masks and ready to be seen for who they actually are

✦ Are moving through some major life transitions and want to feel more authentically connected to their erotic aliveness in this new chapter of their life

✦ Are ready to be witnessed, challenged, and polished by brotherhood, so the mirror finally reflects what's true

✦ Can commit to 8 weeks of showing up for themselves and each other

This container is not for:

X People in acute crisis who need therapeutic support first

X Anyone seeking a quick fix or surface-level change

X Those who aren't willing to meet their edges. This container will ask you to show up in ways that feel uncomfortable. That's the work.

X Anyone looking for a sexualized space. Here we work with eros and sexuality in an open, mature, and consent-focused way.

For those ready for more intimacy 

I'M OPENING A FEW 1:1 SPACES FOR BROTHERS WHO WANT TO BE HELD CLOSER THROUGHOUT BLOOM.

If you desire a private space to remove even more layers, to be witnessed in all of your beauty, to be guided with unwavering presence, so you can build the kind of momentum that only intimacy creates.

Deep Bloom  

EVERYTHING IN BLOOM , PLUS:

✦ One 90-minute private Deep Dive session with me

In this session I meet you where you are, and together we'll explore what's been holding you back from your most authentic expression. We go slowly and find the edges you've been wanting to expand, and the places your body has been protecting. You leave this session softer, clearer, more turned on by your own becoming. Only 5 spaces available. 

Full Bloom 

EVERYTHING IN DEEP BLOOM , PLUS:

✦ Four 60-minute private sessions, one every other week

✦ Weekly voice and text check-ins throughout the container

You receive my devoted attention across the entire journey. Together we strip down to what's true: we explore your desire, what you want, what you've been afraid to want, and how to let it move through you without apology.  Between calls, you bring me what's arising and I offer guidance. This is the most intimate way to move through BLOOM. A space to process your erotic aliveness, tap into your deepest longing, and let it guide you toward the life you actually desire.  Only 3 spaces available. 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

For those ready for more intimacy 

I'M OPENING A FEW 1:1 SPACES FOR BROTHERS WHO WANT TO BE HELD CLOSER THROUGHOUT BLOOM.

If you desire a private space to remove even more layers, to be witnessed in all of your beauty, to be guided with unwavering presence, so you can build the kind of momentum that only intimacy creates.

Deep Bloom  

EVERYTHING IN BLOOM , PLUS:

✦ One 90-minute private Deep Dive session with me

In this session I meet you where you are, and together we'll explore what's been holding you back from your most authentic expression. We go slowly and find the edges you've been wanting to expand, and the places your body has been protecting. You leave this session softer, clearer, more turned on by your own becoming. Only 5 spaces available. 

Full Bloom 

EVERYTHING IN DEEP BLOOM , PLUS:

✦ Four 60-minute private sessions, one every other week

✦ Weekly voice and text check-ins throughout the container

You receive my devoted attention across the entire journey. Together we strip down to what's true: we explore your desire, what you want, what you've been afraid to want, and how to let it move through you without apology.  Between calls, you bring me what's arising and I offer guidance. This is the most intimate way to move through BLOOM. A space to process your erotic aliveness, tap into your deepest longing, and let it guide you toward the life you actually desire.  Only 3 spaces available. 

 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

Words of praise for this work

"The veil between nudity and real intimate bonds has never felt safe. Until now."

- Craig

"I no longer need to feel small. I no longer need to be ashamed of what brings desire to me and my body."

- D.

"I did not realize how much I needed to be in healthy community with other queer men. I feel myself transforming in ways that previously felt out of reach."

- Brandon

"During this offering I felt just how important it is for me to show up and allow myself to be seen, just as I am."

- Will

"It has hit me square in the gut how much of my life has been about performance, perfection, and wanting to be seen in my best light. Instead of waiting for my score, here I felt fully received."

- Kevin

"This program moved me past a threshold into a future I did not previously imagine was possible."

- C.L.

What's included:

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8 Weekly Ceremonial Calls

2 hours each. Held with presence and care.

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Private Community Channel

Brotherhood that extends beyond the calls.

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Rotating Accountability Buddies

Forge intimate relationships with your brothers and support each other.

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Weekly Practices

Simple, potent practices to anchor the work between calls.

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Exclusive Invite to In-Person Experience

An exclusive in-person weekend in Joshua Tree, May 28-31. For brothers who want to take this work off-screen and into the body. More details available after you join Bloom!

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Intimate Container

By invitation and application only. I'm personally curating a hand-selected group of brothers so we can go deep enough to actualize long-lasting transformation.

I'M READY TO BLOOM

The Investment

 

PAY IN FULL OR IN MONTHLY INSTALLMENTS.

BLOOM

$900

Payment plans available at checkout

 

 The Full Online Erotic Brotherhood Experience

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DEEP BLOOM

$1,100

Payment plans available at checkout

 

The Full Online Erotic Brotherhood Experience + One 90-min 1:1 Deep Dive

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FULL BLOOM

$1,700

Payment plans available at checkout

 

The Full Online Erotic Brotherhood Experience + Four 1:1s sessions + Ongoing text and voice support

Register

WHY I CREATED THIS WORK

I spent my twenties performing a version of myself I thought would be worthy of love. I escaped a small town in Italy to find myself in West Hollywood, where I learned to show only the parts that felt safe.

And yet something in me always sought spaces where I could be free in my body. Nude beaches., hot springs, Korean spas. Places where I could be present with all of myself in the presence of others to reclaim my innocence.

I've studied the erotic arts at ISTA, The Body Electric, Awakening the Wild Erotic and spent years looking for something that hetero-normative men's work could not offer.  I learned that WHEN EROS IS TREATED WITH CARE, INTEGRITY AND REVERENCE, OUR INNOCENCE REMEMBERS ITSELF. And from that remembering, we gain access to something extremely powerful: the capacity to use our desire as a compass that invites us to create, to connect, and to become exactly who we came here to be.

Last fall I piloted The Steam Room, a three-week nude brotherhood where I witnessed brothers reclaiming their bodies from decades of shame. Men saying it was the first time they'd ever felt safe being fully visible. Men gaining a level of self-love and self-trust that others in their life could notice.

BLOOM was born from a simple question:

What becomes possible when I live as the most authentically expressed and erotically alive version of myself?

I invite you to join me in this exploration.

 

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begins on March 29th, 2026 

Limited spaces available 

I'M READY TO BLOOM

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